Second chance!

Second chance!

They say, “Everybody deserves a second chance”. A second chance to redeem yourself to past mistakes. A second chance to prove everybody else wrong that this time you can do it. And a second chance to make things work between past lovers.

Sometimes we don't deserve them. The feeling of regret and wishing for another chance is common when a couple separates. Whoever is at fault usually searches for sympathy as they have realized in hindsight their mistakes. When people break up, they usually handle it in one of two ways. They either push themselves to forget about it and move on, or they wallow in depression, holding on.

For me two people should not forget each other. Those sweat and bitter memories should stay because it’s the thing that will remind us that once in our life, we love and be loved. Trying to forget means getting rid of all the experiences and lessons.

What I learned about my past relationship is the term “regret”. The regret of not doing everything in your power to save the relationship. I should have done something different to deal with the problem, but I guess its all in the past now.

When you are in a relationship, treat your partner with marriage in mind. But if it doesn’t work out, don’t be afraid to break up. Common sense, but deep.