Isang malupet na payo...

Stop loving someone who doesn't love you.

Hindi ka nga niya mahal e wag mo na pahirapan pa ang sarili mo, wag mo na din ipagpilitan ang hindi pwede at ang alam mong imposible. Alam mo naman siguro na sa simula palang e hindi na pwedeng maging kayo siguro oo may pagaasa pero alam mo na ngayon yung sitwasyon alam ko na mahal mo siya alam ko din na hindi ganun kadali na kalimutan yung pagmamahal mo sa kanya lalo na kapag naging magkaibigan kayo ng ilang panahon pero isipin mo din ang sarili mo at ang ikaliligaya mo. Kapag lalong kang umasa at pinapatuloy mo ang alam mong hindi talaga pwede lalo mo lang pinalulungkot at sinasaktan ang sarili mo! may choice ka naman e sadyang hindi mo lang ginagawa alam mo na yung tama pero ginagawa mo parin ang mali. Hindi mali ang umibig pero mali ang maging tanga lalo na sa taong hindi ka kayang mahalin pabalik. Sino ba siya para saktan ka at iyak mo ng ganun? sino ba siya para paglaan mo ng pagmamahal pero hindi naman pinahahalagahan? Tandaan mo worth it ka! para sa taong worth it din para sayo. Kaya please tigilan mo na magbago ka at mag move on ka maawa ka sa sarili mo at sa puso mo na sobra ng nasasaktan pwede ka naman maging masaya hindi nga lang sa kanya at alam ko may isang tao na mamahalin ka at mamahalin mo din higit pa sa pagmamahal mo sa nakaraan mo...

credits to : Admin Force 

PAIN

EMOTIONAL PAIN:  Every one of us suffers from it. We often ignore it because we get used to it. But if the pain is so severe and we don’t know what to do, we tend to seek something to ease the pain. There are no known medicines that can cure it. Others would resolve to alcohol to lessen the anxiety they are feeling, and others on prohibited drugs. All we need is help, from family or friends but all of this is unavailable or MIA then of you have to do is sucked it up and hope that the pain goes away.

If you are going through a difficult phase, and are unable to cope, it is time to realign your thoughts. Dealing with pain is an important part of growing up. We should become mature, wise, and more tolerant with the passage of time.

“Everyone is down on pain, because they forget something important about it: Pain is for the living. Only the dead don't feel it.

Pain is a part of life. Sometimes it's a big part, and sometimes it isn't, but either way, it's a part of the big puzzle, the deep music, the great game. Pain does two things: It teaches you, tells you that you're alive. Then it passes away and leaves you changed. It leaves you wiser, sometimes. Sometimes it leaves you stronger. Either way, pain leaves its mark, and everything important that will ever happen to you in life is going to involve it in one degree or another.”
― Jim Butcher