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Isang malupet na payo...



Stop loving someone who doesn't love you.

Hindi ka nga niya mahal e wag mo na pahirapan pa ang sarili mo, wag mo na din ipagpilitan ang hindi pwede at ang alam mong imposible. Alam mo naman siguro na sa simula palang e hindi na pwedeng maging kayo siguro oo may pagaasa pero alam mo na ngayon yung sitwasyon alam ko na mahal mo siya alam ko din na hindi ganun kadali na kalimutan yung pagmamahal mo sa kanya lalo na kapag naging magkaibigan kayo ng ilang panahon pero isipin mo din ang sarili mo at ang ikaliligaya mo. Kapag lalong kang umasa at pinapatuloy mo ang alam mong hindi talaga pwede lalo mo lang pinalulungkot at sinasaktan ang sarili mo! may choice ka naman e sadyang hindi mo lang ginagawa alam mo na yung tama pero ginagawa mo parin ang mali. Hindi mali ang umibig pero mali ang maging tanga lalo na sa taong hindi ka kayang mahalin pabalik. Sino ba siya para saktan ka at iyak mo ng ganun? sino ba siya para paglaan mo ng pagmamahal pero hindi naman pinahahalagahan? Tandaan mo worth it ka! para sa taong worth it din para sayo. Kaya please tigilan mo na magbago ka at mag move on ka maawa ka sa sarili mo at sa puso mo na sobra ng nasasaktan pwede ka naman maging masaya hindi nga lang sa kanya at alam ko may isang tao na mamahalin ka at mamahalin mo din higit pa sa pagmamahal mo sa nakaraan mo...





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PAIN


EMOTIONAL PAIN:  Every one of us suffers from it. We often ignore it because we get used to it. But if the pain is so severe and we don’t know what to do, we tend to seek something to ease the pain. There are no known medicines that can cure it. Others would resolve to alcohol to lessen the anxiety they are feeling, and others on prohibited drugs. All we need is help, from family or friends but all of this is unavailable or MIA then of you have to do is sucked it up and hope that the pain goes away.

If you are going through a difficult phase, and are unable to cope, it is time to realign your thoughts. Dealing with pain is an important part of growing up. We should become mature, wise, and more tolerant with the passage of time.

“Everyone is down on pain, because they forget something important about it: Pain is for the living. Only the dead don't feel it.

Pain is a part of life. Sometimes it's a big part, and sometimes it isn't, but either way, it's a part of the big puzzle, the deep music, the great game. Pain does two things: It teaches you, tells you that you're alive. Then it passes away and leaves you changed. It leaves you wiser, sometimes. Sometimes it leaves you stronger. Either way, pain leaves its mark, and everything important that will ever happen to you in life is going to involve it in one degree or another.”
― Jim Butcher






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Beats of love…


What happens when love beats to a different drum? For him its love, for her its fun?

It’s a common scenario between two friends who’s been together like forever. You can deny the fact that there’s a possibilities that one might fall in love to the other or vice versa. It’s inevitable since you both like to be with each other almost everyday. But what if he/she really falls. What if it’s a one way Street, what will you do?

The thing is you have no control over it. You cannot avoid it. Avoiding it means you cannot handle the situation. You can’t just ignore it. The more you suppress it the more you get drawn to it. If you love her/him more than a friend, just say it. But like what they say, easier than said and done. You’re afraid that if you spill the beans, everything will change between the two of you. It will never be the same again. Everything you had for years will just turn into dust blown in the wind.

What if the two of you has the same beat? The same rhythm and melody like yours. What will you do?  Love is like playing blobby. Blobby means finding the right rhythm to play in order to make good music. Just like love, we must find the right feelings, in order to make the love work... ♥ 



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Aminin Mo.. Rare To


Aminin Mo.. Rare To 
Yung taong laging nandyan para sayo. Sasamahan ka kahit saan, kahit anong oras, kahit ano pang ginagawa niya, kahit wala siyang pera. Yung nasasabihan mo ng lahat ng bagay. Nagugutom ka, inaantok ka, matatae o nauutot ka man. Pag magkasama kayo, para kayong mga baliw. Feeling niyo, kayo lang ang tao sa mundo.

Magkasama kayo sa lahat ng trip. Pinauuna ka kapag sasakay ng jeep. Yayakapin ka kapg siksikan sa tren. Di baleng nakatayo sya, basta ikaw nakaupo pag nasa bus. Yung pipilitin niyang dalhin yung bag mo. Tapos bibigay niya yung bag niya para palit kayo. Yung lalaking papayag na make-upan mo, matuwa ka lang. Magsusuot ng ribbon matawa ka lang. Kekembot na parang bading ngumiti ka lang. Sasayaw kayo sa kalye kase favorite mo yung tugtog. Yayakapin ka kahit pawis na pawis ka at sasabihing ang bango bango mo. Hahalikan ka ng madaming madami.

Yung taong sasabihing maganda ka kahit kagigising mo lang. Yung taong tanggap lahat sayo. Hindi kailangang romantic basta ang cool niyo. Kilala ka niya at alam kung anong gusto mo. Hindi siya magsasawang magpicture na magkasama kayo. Yung taong bago pa sabihin yung “I love you”, naparamdam niya na ng todo.

Siya yung kahit kanino mo iwan, alam mong faithful sayo. Pagnahanap mo yun, swerte mo. Wag na wag mo nang pakakawalan yun. ♥♥♥





Source: Nicky Stars




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What is happiness?

What is happiness?

Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources.

Happiness may differ from people to people. Each one of us has its own definition of happiness. For me, it’s the feeling of contentment, the feeling that you accomplished something in your life. Happiness is not something you experience, its something you remember. When you found the purpose of your life, that’s happiness for me. I came to this realization that my existence is blessing in disguise. I live to give love to people unconditionally. I don’t mind if I always get the short end of the stick. You can call me stupid, but that’s me, that’s my happiness.

“They say that in this world there are two kinds of happiness... one kind of happiness you only know after the moment has passed, and the other is a happiness you feel in the moment.. That happiness you feel in the moment is so precious that they say the memories of this kind of happiness can stay and enlighten your life.. May be we can turn today into the kind of happiness you feel in the moment so that we can remember this happiness for the rest of our life” - Jin-gook




 Bob Marley-Don't worry be happy
 

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Anong ibig sabihin ng best friend?

Anong ibig sabihin ng best friend?

Well sa literal na pananalita, ito yong pinaka the best sa lahat mo ng friends. Sya yong taong pwede mo matakbohan sa oras ng pangangailangan. Pwede mo sya utangan tas lista mo sa tubig.. hahaha.. Sya yong taong pwede mo mapagsabihan ng kahit anong tungkol sayo, mapasekreto man ito o hindi.

May sarili ako depinisyon kung ano ba talaga ang best friend para saken.

Ang best friend kelangan slow!!!!!
          Ito yung tipo na pag nag-uusap kayo ng kung ano ano, may point na bigla na lang mapapatigil yung isa sa pagsasalita na parang naiihi or natatae ang itsura. Parang blanko ang muka at tila yata parang malalim ang iniisip. Yun pala di nya magets ang pinag.uusapan di nya lang maamin sa kaibigan nya na nalolost valdez na pala sya.. wahahaha.

Ang best friend kelangan iisa ang trip!!!!
          Ito yung kahit ano gawin nyo, iisa kayo ng iniisip. Magkasundo sa kalokohan at katarantadohan. Lagi magkasama sa galaan at lakaran. Yung bang pag may nakita sila isang bagay, alam na ng bawat isa ang gagawin. Pag dating sa pagkaen iisa lang ang gusto, iisa lang ang panglasa, walang iwanan lalo na sa pagbabayad sa kinainan.. haha

Ang best friend kelangan tumawa ka sa joke kahit di nakakatawa!!!
          Nakarinig na ba kayo ng joke na kelangan mag.explain para lang magets? Wahahaha.. Minsan pag ngbitaw sya ng joke, kahit di nakakatawa, eh tatawa ka. Sa loob loob mo na lang, teka anong nakakatawa sa joke na yun? Tas maya maya magegets mo na pag inulit nya yung joke… slowwwwww hahaha

Ang best friend kelangan andyan di lang sa saya, pati na din sa kalungkotan!
          Sa oras ng parang nararamdaman mo na iniwan ka ng buong mundo. Yung feeling mo parang pinagsakluban ka ng langit at lupa. Yung tipong wala kana makausap at walang mapagsabihan ng problema at lungkot na nararamdaman mo. Andyan dapat si best friend para alalayan ka at ipaalala sayo na di ka nag-iisa. Sya yung tutulong sayo. Sya yung pilit na magpapasaya sayo kahit magmuka pa syang tanga tumawa ka lang at pagaanin ang loob mo. Sya yung magsasabi sayo na, “hey kapatid! Magiging ok din ang lahat, kaya smile naman dyan”


Ang best friend hinding hindi ka iiwan ano pa man ang mangyari!
          Ito yung sumpaan na walang iwanan peksman! Maging kalaban mo man ang lahat o ang buong mundo, sa oras ng kagipitan hinding hindi ka nya iiwan magkamatayan pa man. Teka teka rewind.. wag naman sana umabot sa tipong patayan ano?? Hahaha..

Ilan lang yan sa depenesyon ko ng pagiging magbest friend. Sabi nila nag-iisa lang talaga ang best friend. Dumami man ang kaibigan mo, may makilala man bago, nag-iisa lang talaga yung matuturing mong BEST FRIEND.

Ako nag-iisa lang talaga sya, gusto ko lang iparating sa kanya na, ano pa man mangyari sa hinaharap. Magkalayo man tayo or maghiwalay man ng landas. Magkaron man tayo ng sarili sarili nating buhay, mananatili ka pa rin sa puso ko. Maging iba man ang tingin nila sa atin. Sabihin man nilang hindi pwede maging magbest friend ang lalake at babae. Eh paki ba nila, mas kaderss naman tignan yun magbestfriend na parehong lalake tas chessy pa pag nagkikita.. wahahahha.

Alam kong alam mo na mahal na mahal kita kapaterrr, at alam ko ganun ka din sa akin. Sana pag tumanda tayo ganito pa din tayo, mga sira ulo.. hahaha. Andito lang ako lagi para sayo, isang tawag mo lang andyan na ako. Gusto ko happy ka palagi, di bale ng ako yung malungkot basta ikaw happy.. hehe... yihiiii <3

 

  poySOPERLABbash <3


 

Count On Me lyrics
Songwriters: Lawrence, Phillip; Levine, Ari; Mars, Bruno;

If you ever find yourself stuck in the middle of the sea
I'll sail the world to find you
If you ever find yourself lost in the dark and you can't see
I'll be the light to guide you

Find out what we're made of
What we are called to help our friends in need

You can count on me like one, two, three
I'll be there and I know when I need it
I can count on you like four, three, two
And you'll be there 'cause that's what friends
Are supposed to do, oh yeah, ooh, ooh

If you toss and you turn and you just can't fall asleep
I'll sing a song beside you
And if you ever forget how much you really mean to me
Everyday I will remind you

Find out what we're made of
What we are called to help our friends in need

You can count on me like one, two, three
I'll be there and I know when I need it
I can count on you like four, three, two
And you'll be there 'cause that's what friends
Are supposed to do, oh yeah, ooh, ooh, yeah, yeah

You'll always have my shoulder when you cry
I'll never let go, never say goodbye

You can count on me like one, two, three
I'll be there and I know when I need it
I can count on you like four, three, two
And you'll be there 'cause that's what friends
Are supposed to do, oh yeah, ooh, ooh

You can count on me 'cause I can count on you


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Second chance!


Second chance!

They say, “Everybody deserves a second chance”. A second chance to redeem yourself to past mistakes. A second chance to prove everybody else wrong that this time you can do it. And a second chance to make things work between past lovers.

Sometimes we don't deserve them. The feeling of regret and wishing for another chance is common when a couple separates. Whoever is at fault usually searches for sympathy as they have realized in hindsight their mistakes. When people break up, they usually handle it in one of two ways. They either push themselves to forget about it and move on, or they wallow in depression, holding on.

For me two people should not forget each other. Those sweat and bitter memories should stay because it’s the thing that will remind us that once in our life, we love and be loved. Trying to forget means getting rid of all the experiences and lessons.

What I learned about my past relationship is the term “regret”. The regret of not doing everything in your power to save the relationship. I should have done something different to deal with the problem, but I guess its all in the past now.

When you are in a relationship, treat your partner with marriage in mind. But if it doesn’t work out, don’t be afraid to break up. Common sense, but deep.



 
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